Subtle ways to turn yourself on

Sometimes, getting yourself turned on means doing something to get yourself in the mood. Don’t burden it on your partner to always get your juices going.

Regardless of whether you are in a relationship or not, you have a major role to play when it comes to making your sex life satisfying. If you are having trouble getting yourself in the mood, follow the following tips.

Take a consciously sexy bath or shower

Depending on how you take it, a bath can make you feel very sexy and turn you on.  Luxurious baths are for everyone, even if you think that baths are not your thing.  Purchase some scented candles and put on some relaxing and sexual music then draw yourself a bath.  Don’t forget to invest in good bath products that will make appreciate the moment more.

Use a sponge, washcloth or loofah to gently sooth your skin and turn yourself on. You don’t have to go all the way while in the bathtub. Get in touch with your sensitive Areas like skin, chest, thighs and nipples.

Wear sexy lingerie around the house

There is something about wearing sexy lingerie that just turns everyone one.  Wearing lingerie around the house is a good way to turn yourself on subtly. Pick lingerie that makes you feel hot and sexy and wear it around the house while you are doing chores.  Silky and satin lingerie tend to feel soft on the skin and can subtly turn you on.


One of the most powerful libido aid for anyone is the mind. Research proves that some people can achieve orgasm just from thinking about sex or a sexual fantasy alone.  While we all probably need a little action to get into the right mood, fantasies can work as well.  Fantasies can be incredibly powerful when it comes to turning you on.

All you need to do is take a few moments to yourself, lie down in a comfortable bed, close yourself and imagine a sexy scene you would like to be in. don’t be too shocked if you find yourself asleep during the sexy fantasy as it is meant to be relaxing.

Read some erotic materials

Erotic materials including books magazines, articles and more can get you in the right mood. Pick out your favourite material, settle down in a comfortable spot and in comfortable clothing and be prepared to be in the mood.


Speaking of erotic materials, you could try sexing your boyfriend or girlfriend if you have one. Sexing with the right person can subtly arouse you and get you in the mood.  Get your partner to talk about your fantasies or talk dirty to you over the phone to get your juices flowing.

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